May 30Big and Little Joy In SobrietyMemorial Day 2017 was my rock bottom. Not to be confused with the Day I finally stopped drinking. That would come ½ year or more later. Memorial Day Weekend has been an evolution in my sobriety and overall personal growth. You can read more about Memorial Day’s past here, here…Holidays3 min readHolidays3 min read
May 30Member-onlySocial Media and AddictionMy Social Media Experiment was to stop using Instagram and Facebook for business for 7 weeks. What happened was not what I expected. Why did I do this? Like many, I have a love/hate relationship with social media. I love it because I have made both virtual and real life…Addiction6 min readAddiction6 min read
May 23Sober Milestones and GraduationsThis weekend was my first born daughter’s high school graduation. My sobriety made everything so much better. In some ways it felt like a stress test: Host a party for 50 people. Pray for good weather. Say hello. Say goodbye. Introduce people to each other. Lose sleep for 3 nights…Sober5 min readSober5 min read
May 2Member-onlyIt’s Hard to Be Sober, from a Sober CoachI am in a season of extreme emotions right now. My oldest daughter is graduating high school in just a few weeks. She will be moving 6 hours away to go to school (MIZ-ZOU!) in early August. I feel like we are still connected via umbilical cord, so as much…Sober6 min readSober6 min read
Apr 18Pushing Past Resistance and Limiting BeliefsThe spring sun is here! I want to go outside! I love to go outside. I am an outdoorsy person. I believe in the benefits of sunlight and movement to set my circadian rhythm, lift my mood, and give me a good dose of feel good chemicals. Yet, even so…somehow…Fitness4 min readFitness4 min read
Apr 17Country Drinking Songs and SobrietyI am a COUNTRY girl. Born in small town Wisconsin. My first drink was a cheap beer. Busch Lite. In my coming of age, I partied and chased boys in barns and fields. I rode around in pickup trucks. I love country music. I love to sing about getting day…Alcoholism8 min readAlcoholism8 min read
Apr 10Drunken EasterThe details are very foggy, but I have a drunken Easter story. For the life of me, I can’t think about why I would have been without plans or my family on Easter, but one year it happened. Maybe I chose it? I have no idea. I really can’t remember…Holidays6 min readHolidays6 min read
Apr 65 Biggest Mistakes to Avoid When Cutting Back on AlcoholI am an expert in quitting drinking. I’ve done it a million times. That is why I am the perfect person to tell you about the mistakes I’ve made in trying to get sober. Not only that, I am also a Certified Professional Life and Recovery Coach, in addition to…Wellness7 min readWellness7 min read
Mar 17Member-onlySt. Patrick’s Day Is No Longer My Favorite HolidayI thought St. Patrick’s Day was my favorite holiday. I look good in green. I like corned beef. I was raised on beer. One look at me and you would swear I was a jolly Irish soul. I am 5 years sober. After decades of drunken shenanigans involving day drinking…Alcohol4 min readAlcohol4 min read
Mar 10Member-onlyHow Could I Have An Alcohol Problem? I’m perfect.From a young age, I had a taste for alcohol. I desired the delightful woozy, boozy release wash over me. For as long as I can remember, I also had a thirst for perfection. The more I learn about myself, the more I see how my behaviors came to be. …Perfectionism8 min readPerfectionism8 min read